Social media and relationships is a hot topic. As someone who didn’t get her first email address until college, I often have difficulty truly understanding the role social media plays in the lives of our children and adolescents. They have never lived in a world without technology and therefore are innately more inclined to feel comfortable in using technology and social media. I sometimes think that because of many adults’ lack of comfort or understanding, social media gets vilified. Yes, there are stories after stories about the dangers of social media but with all things, there is always another side. Social media can also allow for access to resources, information, and relationships.
To determine if I, or my clients, are using social media in a helpful or harmful way I like to stick with the who, what, when, where, why, and how questions.
I know that is a lot of questions! I promise they are worthwhile to consider. Take time to learn about the most current social medial outlets and most importantly, talk to your child/teen!
Until next time, Be Wise!
“Dr. Amy is like Oprah – she’s the neighbor you love who is very, very smart”
— Parent of 14-year-old son and 18-year-old daughter“Dr. Amy knows how to relate to children and make them feel comfortable. My son was shy in the beginning but Amy asked him a couple of questions about what he likes and immediately found a connection with him. He happily followed her into the office (just after a 3 min of conversation) and performed the test. He wasn’t nervous or scared and it’s because of her ability to relate to kids.
We had a great experience and he wants to go back! Thank you very much!”
— Dad of 5-year-old assessment client